Relationship involves a level of self-disclosure. Just because I’m sitting next to somebody on an aeroplane doesn’t mean to say we are enjoying a relationship. We can both be wrapped up in our own worlds. It’s only when we communicate and converse that we become present for one another.
Some years ago I was involved in a teaching/worship event involving over 5,000 people in the East of England. It only took place one week a year and one particular year that I was there leading worship the main organiser of the conference came to see me on the last day and said “It’s been great, can we book you for next year?” So I wrote the dates in my diary
The year went by and I started to choose and learn the new songs needed for the impending event. Soon the time arrived that we had to set off. Those readers with a young family (as I had in those days) will appreciate the stresses involved in getting ready to go away when you have young children in tow. When you’re also providing the music at the place
you’re going those stresses can be magnified, but there we were on the Saturday morning squeezing everything into the car, getting everything together, checking for the 30th time just to make sure we hadn’t forgotten anything, and finally setting off for the journey to East Anglia.
The week was held in a big country showground and the year before there had been AA signs to guide people to the right location. This year the roads seemed strangely devoid of signs, but we kept going and then found a sign for the showground itself so we followed that. The previous year the showground was buzzing and there was a great stream of traffic heading there. This year it seemed peculiarly quiet and we just sailed through. Maybe there weren’t as many people attending this year? Quite soon, however, we reached the showground and drove onto… a big empty field. There was nothing there! No tents, no stalls, no cars, no people! I was really confused. I’d been working at this for months, learning all the songs, preparing for a great week and now I didn’t know what was happening.
This was in the days before mobile phones were so ubiquitous, so we drove off, found a Little Chef, parked up and I went to a callbox to phone the organiser and find out where everybody was.
I managed to get him on the phone and he asked, ‘‘Where are you?’’ ‘‘Well,’’ I said, ‘‘I’m here, at the showground.’’ ‘‘You’re there?’’ he replied, perplexed. ‘‘It doesn’t start till next week!’’ Yes, I had done all the preparation and planning, but a week ahead of time. We hadn’t been in touch very much and the dates had actually been changed. From the brief conversations I’d had with the organiser I had assumed that the dates I had were correct. It was simply because we weren’t in regular communication that I’d got into this problem.
The quality of our communication with God improves the more time we spend with Him. Prayer is one of the major gateways for us to develop a life of worship in His presence.
taken from "Worship and the Presence of God", Published by New Wine Ministries, Chichester. © 2007 Dave Bilbrough